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Join our Primary Education forum to discuss mumsnet aibu school and helping your child get the most out of it. DS has a 'friend' in his class who is very over powering, mumsnet aibu, and has recently been controlling DS not letting him play with anyone else and asking him to do things etc and saying he wants him to play with him no one else.

DS comes home quite moody. He's 9. He's quite rude to me and his grandma but nothing unreasonable. Anyway, during dinner I ask him if I can check something with him I was going to ask if he wanted dessert. He rudely says 'No you cannot'. So I said fine and just didn't offer dessert. Anyway DH witnessed whole thing.

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Aibu that I feel angry and upset that my ex has sleepovers knowing that my Lo's will no doubt be getting in bed during the night and or the morning. A couple weeks after I moved out And on "break" Am I supposed to be ok with this? Am I over reacting? I'm guessing that he has a woman stay overnight in his bed when he has the kids too so they are being exposed to someone who might not be around very long. Yes it is not reasonable for your child to share a bed with their dad's gf of a few weeks. Sorry if I was a bit vague. So I suspected my then OH was cheating never came clean. I left after a few months of it going on as I couldn't deal with the lies etc. We agreed to go on a break, she requested 3 months I went along as everything was just as blur. It came to my attention that she was having sleepovers with other guys. Within the first week.

I politely mumsnet aibu her if she could be more careful and sent her a picture and video. Add post Watch this thread Save thread.

MNHQ have commented on this thread. Obviously, the purpose of it originally was for posters to ask an actual question, Am I being unreasonable… to not want to visit Mexico at Christmas, to think teabags should only be used once, to want my friend to visit me for once. As a kind of secondary point to this, why have so many topics and not use them? People end up posting asking for advice in AIBU on sensitive topics because they get no response in the correct topic. They then get roasted by the twats and no one is happy. Hi OP Thanks for getting in touch about this. We do move threads around when needed, but we often find people have posted in AIBU for a poll.

We also learn that there was another man in her life, Alex David Fynn , who she did passionately love, but who came to a violent end in a freak accident involving his duffle coat and some train doors. Poor Nic has terrible flashbacks about the incident, which leaves her screaming in country churchyards. Then Nic bonds with a new arrival in the neighbourhood, the single mum Jen Selin Hizli. Their kids play together, and the pair discover a shared dislike about everyone else in the village. Drinks are arranged. What is Jen up to? Why, when she meets Dan fleetingly, do the pair have a sort of moment, and he seems keen to spend more time with her? Who exactly was the man Nic was having a reckless affair with? And precisely how gruesome will things get for Nic as her new bestie proceeds to gaslight, blackmail and destroy her as feels inevitable? The whole set-up of AIBU has been written by Cooper and Hizli, and the script is intricately structured so as to maintain that balance between reality and deception, past and present, lies and truth — and they succeed admirably.

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AIBU — am I being unreasonable? The acronym is attributed most to parenting website Mumsnet, where members can post and debate whether their choices, intentions and feelings are justified — or are unreasonable. The topics covered vary from friends to family to work, but notably to relationships too. You can break this down by reflecting on: how defensive your partner is being, whether this is a recurring pattern, whether this impinges on a core value of yours, and if you feel unheard. Determining where to draw the line though is tough because inevitably, our past experiences do affect the way we approach the present — particularly if there are unhealed wounds.

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Customise Getting started FAQ's. Add post. Please create an account To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Well no she shouldn't be having men in her bed if they kids are getting in half way through the night. I agree that 9 pm watering is a good compromise. Sharing posts outside of Mumsnet does not disclose your username. AIBU 9 replies. Watch thread Flip. For your general "oh god I feel so alone," no, I definitely wouldn't contact him during the workday to tell him this stuff. That's too much. He says I need to fix up and clean the house before he gets home I'd be disappointed too and have been in a similar situation but I usually tell myself that if the roles were reversed I wouldn't love him organising my time and activities for days he wasn't there!

We have a great small circle of friends. Six of us we are three couples.

I work in schools and I agree , find out exactly what happened and if your son is correct tell them clearly he is not to be asked again They should have other strategies, it's not your sons problem to put it bluntly. Relationship counseling perhaps? Use Chat for traffic. I also started writing out my feelings of hurt andn insecurity rather than unloading them on one person. I do not want my DS singled out and isolated from the rest of the class while the boy has his free time especially when we are trying to distance them and encourage other friendships! To tell her school that they can deal with it if they have an issue? My feed I'm on I'm watching I started. OP posts: See next See all. Yes it is not reasonable for your child to share a bed with their dad's gf of a few weeks. OP posts: See all. I remember when it started - people did actually title threads "Am I being unreasonable to Primary education Follow topic. For desktop support. If she continues I'm going to take further action.